It’s to simply get out of their own way so the interest and attraction the girl already feels can grow.
And nothing kills that interest and attraction like a guy who is trying to get a girl to like him. Being selective and actively filtering to see if she’s your type is going to help the girl see you as attractive and high-value.
If you want to enjoy your time and help her do the same then you’ll want to ease that tension early.So show up smiling, and walk with strong, confident body language as you roll up to meet her.When you greet her start the conversation off with some light, content-free banter (compliments or playful teasing could work great here).Ask the right questions Guys often get stuck asking dull questions during first online dates. So rather than jumping from one thread to another, dive deeper into each one.They’ll bounce from one question to the next (from “Where are you from? After you ask her where she’s from, maybe ask what she thinks of her hometown, or what kind of things she did for fun growing up.